The only reason people aim for anything is because they want to feel something beyond themselves, because they want to feel happiness course through their entire body, because they want to get close to the other (be that singular or plural), and because they want freedom, freedom being the ultimate release of all the tension that they’ve been building up while working towards this point.
When you look closely it’s all about sex. Some of us are tantric about it, quick about it, shy about it, private about it, and public about it, but still – it’s all sex.
Everything in the world is about sex except sex.
Sex is about power.
Oscar Fingal O’Flahertie Wills Wilde